Sep 03 2010
wedding reception gift etiquette?
The invitation clearly states no gifts, but I feel ackword about not bringing one, should I bring one anyways or give one to my friends at a later date? what is appropriate?
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12 Responses to “wedding reception gift etiquette?”
No Gifts is what it means. You could give them something for their home later. Alternatively take photographs at the wedding, save on CD and give it to them. If it is No Gifts, they probably haven’t booked a professional photographer either. If you do this, take a picture of everybody, don’t miss people out like I do!
NO GIFTS MEANS NO GIFTS.IT IS THE CHOISE OF THE COUPLE GETTING MARRIED..FEEL AWKWARD IF YOU MUST, BUT RESPECT THE BRIDE AND GROOMS WISHES.
you can always give it to them at an earlier date as well
u could always make a charitable donation on their behalf, you can buy animals for families in third world countries on their behalf
give a gift later
Never go against what their wishes are, it will make other guests feel bad if you do. Photos are a wonderful idea. If you find out that they need something for their new life you could get it later as an un-birthday present. (alice in wonderland)
Follow the instructions you were given or you will make them angry.
I’ve gotten a lot of invitations that say “no gift.” But people always bring gifts. Just follow your gut instinct.
go with what they asked
Respecting the couple’s wishes would be nice, but most people want to give a gift anyway. However, gifts should not be brought to the reception/ceremony – that’s tacky. Gifts should always be sent/delivered to their home. If you insist on giving them some token, send it afterwards, so they don’t have to deal with lugging it somewhere after the reception.
Give them a very nice gift at Christmas or the next appropriate holiday.
Since the invitation states no gifts you can safely not give any gifts. Maybe you can give them a nice card.